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Does Exceptions have Limitations?

Yes even , expectations have limitations.
You have given the free will to live your life. Everybody has  the freedom to live their own life according to their will. Under certain parameter, it is okay to expect. But somewhere it is going to end. Everything has a limit. Again there are certain exceptions like parents and loved ones. Theyexpect something from you and that's not at all wrong. But when it comes on the social level, expectations have limitations.Expecting something from someone is not wrong, just there has to be a set-point and one should know where to stop. Expecting fish to climb the tree is a total waste, you this is never going to happen, this is a useless thing to expect. There are innumerable examples of false expectations. You just cannot expect beyond limits. Everyone is living their life according to his will, his freedom. You have no right to curb them or stop them in any way. Sometimes things are not going to be according to your way. You simply cannot live b…

9 amazing tips for self motivation.

I strongly believe in the reward system. You get a reward for your action you tend to act more. Think of a child, if you give chocolate to him for doing something simple action like to bring a glass of water for you (don't judge me by this example), then he tends to help more, expecting a bar of chocolate as a reward. Not only children but also the grown-ups tend to act more furiously expecting something in return. If you are going to get something as a reward you will work more efficiently. Above concept can be used for self-motivation purpose. Think, rewarding yourself for doing something, yes there are going to be some restrictions and clauses you have to work with but other-wise this is a great technique for self-motivation. Following are the clauses you need to consider before experimenting thisBeing honest with yourself:Honesty playing a key role here. If you are honest with yourself, then and then only you can justify your reward system.
Write down your goals:It can be fitne…

How to analyze your problem?

Try to look at your problem in different angle, who knows, it may turn into something, which doesn't even need a solution. Everyone has problems in his life. There is no such living entity who is free from problems. As far as Human being is concerned, he is the one with the power to dominate, and with great power comes great responsibility, so he is the one with most of the problems.The first step to deal with the problem is to analyze it. Analyze your problem, figure it out and most importantly know your problem. Always be aware of what you are dealing with. Closer you look, less you see. -Now you see me(Movie) 

Close you look, less you see. It's is so simple to understand. closer you look at something, less area your eye-sight is going to cover. Look closely at your problem is important but after analyzing it. Remember focus always comes after you know your niche, likewise first understand your problem. So, take a wide look and cut short of your problems. Change your perspect…

How to sail your life wisely!

You can either go with the flow or you can oppose the flow, one who decides what to prefer according to the situation is the sailor sailing his life wisely
Every one of you is familiar with the saying 'Just go with the flow'. Yes, sometimes this is the best solution for the problem. Now think wisely, most of the time, going with the flow is the only option left, for the natural problem or an inevitable problem(like death, natural calamity, etc). In these cases, one can ignore and try to move on to overcome. But, what about our daily problems? We can't just ignore them, and move on to our routine life. Consider your life as an endless ocean. An ocean which is full of uncountable waves, which is an analogy to our never-ending life problems.  Your mind(ship) is sailing in this ocean. Sailing alone without a sailor. Just like a ship requires a sailor to control it, your mind needs a controller. Your inner consciousness act as a controller for your lost mind. Your ship cannot b…

Accept and Forgive!

One who has the ability to accept and to forgive, has the most peaceful relationships; here relationships includes everything that leads to a happy life, a peaceful mind, fewer problems, absolutely no stress, etc. Yes, I know this has no direct spiritual context but if you look at any damn thing in the correct dimension you can find that thing spiritual. Peace of mind is very important for spiritual consciousness. First, one should be clear with the motive of his life, what is the purpose of human life. For that, you should Go and Inquire. Then a peaceful mind is a next step.  Lets cut this short, I just wanted to explain to you that, why the ability to accept and to forgive is to be mastered (Just for the sake of a peaceful mind and fewer relationship/social). Social says it all. How you tackle with other people in your society? What is your attitude towards the people of society? and many other things. So let's get this started.Ego, greed, lust, rage, illusion, and envy are the …

How to be a Noble Man

A great person is labeled prodigious only if he is a combination of three virtues-flawless talent, correct attitude, and inspiring character. Talent and Attitude takes one to the success and Character helps to maintain it.
TALENT
Talent is like the sword, not to be merely admired but to be used. It is the natural ability gifted to you to be good at something. Every living entity in this world is talented. You just need to be cautious enough to identify the hidden talent. Likewise, using it wisely is an important thing. Talent should be grasped such that it should be beneficial to you in every possible way, also accepting the truth that it is the devotional activity given to me to serve. While contemplating, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachments, lust develops. Ownership does not imply control and control does not imply ownership. When one is not permanent in this world how one can claim proprietorship. We can conclude that each and everyone has a unique talen…